Τετάρτη 31 Ιουλίου 2013

Long time, no time

If there is anybody out there reading what i'm writing, you might have been thinking that I've quit, the blogg, the 30 day challenge or maybe even both. Reallity is, I don't have much time and therefore I have not been posting around here. There has been a big turn of events for me, for the last 10 or 11 days I've been living a totaly different lifestyle than what I used to, due to certain circumstances. I will come back to my own, calm lifestyle, but I'm also enjoing what I'm doing right now. It's good to take a big break from a routine and jump into other stuff, stuff that you might never have thought about doing.
Along with not having time for this blogg, I have not had the time to sit by myself, read through the articles and fullfill the task. I do fail one of the rules I had when starting, to always take a task on it's day. However, I have not quit the challenge, there are only a few tasks left, which I will fullfill when I feel it's time to get back to it.  For now, I've already lived the differencein various situations and I feel much more confident, I'm now prepared for anything and I've already done quite some stuff that I would otherwise never done.

Δευτέρα 22 Ιουλίου 2013

Steping up the game

What good is a self-improving challenge, if nothing is really challenging, if nothing changes, if there is nothing other than a routine? I've arranged to do a nice little trip. A trip that will give me the chance to get some experiences, to relax, to develop my friendships, to get some time to think... A trip including good friends, some musical instruments, fishing, a house without even electricity and, hopefully, a lot of fun! I've actually never done a manly trip like that, and I'm excited about it!
I'm gonna freeze the 30 days challenge, until i get back from it, even though it will go against the rules I defined when starting, because some things just have to come first! Time to work on manly skills, on friendships and off course, on my music!

Day 22: Improve your posture

In this one, I do really not trust... I don't see why it should make me a better man... I don't even know if my posture is good or has anything wrong... Don't even know how to improve it.. The article didn't give me enough help as to how to do it. But really, i got bigger problems right now to deal with, and as I man I believe solving problems should be higher on my to-do list that improving my posture. Anyways, once more, i did do nothing about the days task... Maybe I should look into whether I really believe in this challenge...

Day 21: Write your own eulogy

This one is a complicated one... I do step back on this one... I didn't even read through all the article. I realize I'm not going to be around forever, that's something I've been familiarized with. Now the hole eulogy thing, that is something I have not been familiarized with! It is just not the way funerals work where I'm from. And I don't like the idea of an eulogy, not about me, not about anyone else.
I'm not gonna start talking about why and all, i'm just not doing that. I should take up something else to do instead. However, I did not... I take the blame as a man, stuff hasn't been very well for me the last few days.. All I did was some decluttering through stuff I had at my fathers house, made me feel better clearing out stuff, cutting back on strings attached...
More might come in another post... As for day 21, let's call it a fail...

Κυριακή 21 Ιουλίου 2013

Lets talk about service

So, yesterday, the task was to perform service. Not like "do a service today" of course! It was just the decision to start being more active in that part.
But here, I do have some different opinions. Service isn't something to schedule. Helping others isn't a part of the "weekly charity meeting" or something. Of course Brett doesn't put it that way, but what I read between the lines was stuff like "Just do it, no need to worry about what and why, just help in some way". Well, that doesn't do... Milions of people give money, food, clothes in charity, but there are still people not having anything to eat. And I'm not talking about people in Africa, I'm talking about people in the city I live in, and I'm sure in yours too!
Charity is always failing... We might be hearing about sums raised an everything, but I don't see any real life help. I only see people in designer suits, women in dresses that costs more than minimum wage, gathering in a galla and "raising money for the poor" in a way that can only be irony...
On the other hand, I've seen how regular people help each other out! How a guy next door, who has no job is teaching somebody else, so that other one can get a job, how people who strugle to raise their own kids give food to other families, not through organizations, but in person. How a whole lot of students, who just want to hang around and drink some coffee, have made their own cafe, where anyone can drink coffee or have a bite, for free! Why? Because i'll go there, and instead for paying for a coffe, much more than what it is worth, I'll just grab anything i got in the fridge, and give it to the comunity, then somebody else will bring coffee, somebody will leave money. That way there is always things in the fridge, there is always coffee, and the costs are coming in, while at the same time, instead of paying large sums to goverment, new shiny sofas and chairs, new systems for the toilet etc,  you get to give free coffee and food, to anyone who wants it or needs it!
When I will teach a poor familys child, whatever I know well enough to teach him, I perform a much bigger service that to just give away some clothes... That kid will grow up and with what I have teached him, he might be able to get a job that will help him and his family improve their life.

I believe I perform service already. I'm not the most active human out there, but when needed, I will give whatever I can. I just do not want any organizations, asking for specific items, or money, to get in the game of helping others. I do not trust them, simple and easy!
Actually, funny story, when I was in elementary school, at times (like for excample the war in Iraq), organizations would come to school, or even not even come, the teachers did the work for them, and say a few words about some people in need, and ask for money, medicins and canned food, "Anything you can". Even though nobody forced you, it was something everyone did. All kids, next day where there with pasta, rice, medicins, clothes, even money. At the same time, in my class there was a girl who had never met her father, she had 4 siblings, and her mother couldn't walk. We did all "help" the poor people being bombed in Iraq, but nobody cared about or classmate... At the same time, in another school, just a few blocks away, the same organization was saying, and expecting the same, from the kids there. In that school, many of the students was living in an orphanage. Again the kids, including those kids from the orphanage, would gather stuff for the noble cause.  A few years later, most of those kids, can't get a job, are poor, lack highschool educations and are living among us. Maybe not even having any friends from that school..
Isn't that irony? And if not, then what is it?
I choose not to perform service! I choose to persue education, I choose to help anyone around me. I don't care about Africa. And you know why? Because I can't go there and help my self! Sending a pack of rice, or spending all my money on rice, will not change anything for those people down there... They will still be getting all the garbage from Europe and America, they will never become educated, they will always be slaves, slaves not due to chains, but due to their lach of education, and means to resist. 

Παρασκευή 19 Ιουλίου 2013

Preparing to travel

In the last 3 years, and especially on the last year, I've been traveling a lot! It has been about a month now, maybe 5 or 6 weeks, that I have finaly been able to be in one city, without leaving it at all! What I didn't like about traveling that much, is that I always had a clock ticking... Just one day left, just two hours left, just 30 minutes left... I always had to squiz stuff between those traveling hours and so. This last month of not traveling at all was a huge relaxation for me! No clocks, I didn't even wear a watch, and nothing to worry about! However, it's time to travel again! Tomorrow morning, I'm taking a boat, very early in the morning. And I'm not taking it from where I am now, but by a nearby city... That means I have to get to that city today, because tomorrow I won't be able get there before the boat sails.
So in a way, i travel twice, in just 2 days... And I have to match times, and be in time for a bus, then for a boat... Prepare all my luggage, carry all my baggade filled with books and other heavy stuff... Won't be my ideal trip...
However, it's the first time i'm not getting anxious, not in a hurry, not anything...! I've done it too many times already, so I know the drill, I got no reason to get there fast or anything... I've taken care of evrything, and I'm just gonna use the traveling time as a relaxation. Only bad thing is the luggage... I hate carrying a lot with me, and this time I have to.... But there is always a bright side! Instead of making all the trip in one day, and carrying around all the time, i'll have to do a little walking, then relax on the buss, then a little walking again, and then it's just about relaxing with friends (thankfully there are friends in that city), sleep for a while, and then do a little walking again, get on the boat, enjoy the sail and then a car will be waiting for me and my luggage! And this is the best part, cause I get to party right away! The boat arives at the best hour possible!
So laving you for now! Updates about the 30 days challenge will come when I have internet access again!

Πέμπτη 18 Ιουλίου 2013

Day 19, Doctor time!

It isn't day 19 yet, but since I'm gonna have a few things to do tomorrow, and then be without internet for a couple of days, I thought I'd put this one up today. I did read the task so that I could plann tomorrows day better, but it seems like I don't need any planning!
Why is that? Well, prety simple! Acording to Bretts opinion, and doctors, in your 20s you should get an exam every 5 years. Well, in the last 2 years, I've already gotten 3 exams... Sound more like my grandfather than me.. I know I'm well when it comes to health! But, I do have a weak point! I haven't been to a dentist in 4 years. I don't know how often you should be to a dentist though. I don't have any troubles with my teeth, other than drinking lots of coffee lately, and sometimes forgting to brush my teeth bfore sleep. Therefore their color is not as white as it used to be. I'll make an appointment tomorrow, that can't take up much time, just to be in the spitit of the 30 days challenge. I might have been doing harm to my teeth and this could be my chance to get to know about it! Thinking of it, The only medical thing I'm both informed and have ever taken care of is my eyes. And I don't even know why... But if I'm paying good money to get some good sunglasses to protect my eyes, I should at least get some info on my teeth!


As for the progress on the N.U.T.s, I did after all manage answear the questions brett gave... Long answears, I had to be writing them down to help me think and to keep track, but it gave me some possible N.U.T.s, I will check back once I can, propably in 2 days, and check it, narrow it out, add stuff... You know, re-work it for a better result!  This time I didn't get as much concentrated without distraction as I would like, I think I will be able to get more concentrated on it some other time!

But, still, without the silence and all I would like, I managed to think of some very good thoughts... I actually managed to understand my situation, in contrary with some other peoples situation, which is causing some trouble. And identifying the problem is the first step to solving it! It has nothing to do with N.U.T.s as a problem or as a solution, but it came in mind while thinking about it!
That just shows how much effect this challenge can take in you life and help you! Given you are willing to work with it and do some real work on it!

Man, this day  has got me tired! both a lot of walking and a lot of mental working! Time for sleep! Need to do stuff tomorrow too...!